1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you.
(Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He
does not love you and does not value having
you.Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not willing to
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the
(There is only one reason why he ended your
relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste
your time thinking of reasons or what you should have
done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love
3. Do not get hung up on your past.
(Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just
because your ex
hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the
same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same
way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple
mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What
happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not
because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make
him happy enough.)
4. Do not look into images.
(How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have
the best image in
school or at the office, but you get to know the girl
out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on
images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not
fear men just because your
“supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.)
5. Always have your own set of rules.
(Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s
perfectly ok to
give and do everything as long as it’s worth it..And
it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.)
6. Do not be scared to lose him.
(Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once
you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken
advantage.Be strong and if something is unacceptable,
do not accept it and speak up.)
7. Avoid calling your guy.
(It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be
better if it’s
the guy who’s calling, not the girl.He will get tired
of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest
and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s
a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy
until you dial his number. But avoid as much as
possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if
your suspicions are reasonable).)
8. There is a guy who will value you.
(There is a guy out there who can make you feel
and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few
weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a
man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also,
do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he
really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks together? Where
has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into
9. Always be the only one, no matter what.
(Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be
it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get
rid of for
whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves
you and for some
reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then
you are no
different from any ordinary mistress.)
10. He must respect you.
(No matter how long the relationship has been, he
should always show
respect towards you.)
11. If he fooled you, end it.
(Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor
12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.
(Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason.
Nor should you
enter a relationship for the wrong reasons
(loneliness, on the
rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency,
etc.) it is bound
not to last. You will only end up wasting more years
of your life.)
13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.
(Do not get into a relationship just because your
friends are getting
impatient with your dating escapades and the one
hasn’t come yet..
Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial
money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of
things, you have not fallen in love yet.)
14. Do not settle.
If you are not happy anymore with your relationship,
instantly. He will not stay with you forever no
matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he
will also want love and happiness in his life.)
15. A relationship has to have love.
(Love is the only thing that will push you to give
your efforts into
making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping
requires genuine efforts of both parties.)
16. Don’t be afraid to be single.
It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever
you want.You are free. You can date whomever you want
and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend
just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.)
17. Be a good girl.
Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the
sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship
seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your
life with that person(of course, this is after you had
your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare
your flings from your real relationships, you will
know that the latter makes you happier and more
18. Love without limits.
(Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but
held out for some things, if the relationship ends,
you still get hurt. But if you gave
your everything, you were happy and you could say that
it was worth
it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for
19. You will get over him.
(Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are
free to love
20. Be the one.
(Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t
gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him
treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like
every other girl he had in his life.)