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Mr and Mrs Fontz

Janis,

 Bakla, uuwi ako kasama ng mga inaanak mo. The twins, of corz. Miss ka na daw nila. Turuan ka daw magsalita ng German, harharhar…

 J.

Hmm..can’t help but smile…Dahil kc sa kalokohan ko kaya nagkaroon ng names ang mga inaanak ko. Nung nililigawan pa kc si Meia ng jowa niya then na German, hubby na niya ngayon at uber pretty ng mansionera ng lola sa Germany, nilait lait ko talaga ang last name… haha Fontz ba naman…Sabi ko, eto ung mga puede niyang ipangalan sa mga magiging anak niya:

 verdana
tahoma
romans
helvetica
Vrinda
Raavi
Palatino
Boli
Corsiva
Marlett
Lucida
Latha
Garamond
Edessa

Hahaha…being the computer savvy that I am. And my, my, after 2 years, naging Mrs. Fontz na nga siya. Much to my amazement, nanganak siya ng kambal at ang ipinangalan nga ng lola mo ay Edessa at Raavi.

Looking forward naman ako sa muling pagkikita namin ng nga tsikiting..hay so cute kaya nila…Emerald eyes. Hmm…odd lang kc fave daw ng mga jugetz ang palitaw, hmmm, makakatipid ang super kuripot nilang ninang. Ipagluluto ko sila kahit isang bilao pa!

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Unfinished business(es) in ‘07

Grabe, ang bilis ng panahon, November na pala. Most of my goals for the year, hindi ko ata nagawa. Pero may mga pahabol pa… 

Must Do Before the Year Ends :

1. Email Kaye Samson. Hanggang ngayon kasi hindi ko pa rin ma-send and reply ko sa kaniya. Siya po ang head coach ng badminton team na lumaban last Special Olympics sa Shanghai, China.

2. Save. Goal before the year end is to save money talga - kahit konti lang.

3. Manage finances as an independent cosmo chick. Kailangan walang utang, kailangan planado ang shopping and purchases and kailangang mag-save,save, save!

4. Loose weight, kahit 10 lbs before 2008. Yup, kailangang pumayat,  sa KAHIT ANO’NG PARAAN! (Magkano na magpa-lypo?!)

5. Buy a new microwave oven - matagal nang nangungulit ang makukulit kong friends na ipag-bake ko sila;  and a new computer set para kay Marlon (brother) at sa mga pamangkins ko.

6. Fall in love (hehehe). Puwersahan na ‘to! (Mukhang super labo nito!) Gusto ko sanang tanggalin to pero ang ganda kasi ng concept na to!

6. Kulitin si Ruthie nang ma-i-forward na ang dapat niyang i-forward nang mapa-print ko na at mapunit habang nagsasabi ng “Kalilimutan na kita….kalilimutan na kita….Period!” Utang na loob! KALILIMUTAN NA KITA!

7. Dress to kill sa Christmas Party! Ako ata ang mag-de-design ng dress ko at dress ng aking mga amigas. Kailangan planado this time para hindi maging fashion disaster kagaya last year. Theme : Casino Royale.

8. Maipasyal ang mga pamangkin ko and si Mudra at Pudra sa Christmas.

9. Makapag-out of town. Kahit saan. Basta outside Metro Manila.

10. Get-together with college friends, also some friends sa work.

11. Pag-aralang patawarin lahat ng may atraso sa akin. Esp the Rakbhu team at wag maging “short fuse” sa lahat ng bagay.

12. Impose discipline sa aking sleeping hours. Kailangan at least 5 hours a day.

13. Makapanood ng gig ni Amy kahit minsan man lang.

14. Makapamili ng gifts para sa Christmas.

haaayyyyyyyy…ano pa ba?

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Saan ba nakakabili ng Spark?

This was an email forwarded to me centuries ago, naisipan ko lang i-post dito. Nililinis ko kasi ang mga email accounts ko sa yahoo at gmail.

Ako kasi I’ve always believed in “spark”. Laging may “something” unang kita ko pa lang sa isang guy. Though hindi naman parang love at first sight ‘yong dating pero may “something” na nagsasabi sakin na he’s gonna be someone special.

Pero ‘kaw naniniwala ka ba sa “spark”?

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SAN BA NAKAKABILI NG SPARK?
Contributed by
noringai (Edited by blue_kuko)  

San ba nakakabili ng Spark?

Iyan ang tanong sa akin ni Lhen, isang kaibigan. May umaaligid daw kasi sa kanya na matinong lalake, kaya lang, wala siyang maramdamang spark. Kaya nagtatanong siya kung saan nakakabili ng spark.

Hindi ko alam ang sagot. Kung alam ko lang, eh di sana matagal na akong pumila para mamakyaw. Kailangan ko rin ng spark. Maraming-maraming spark.

Ano ba ang spark? Ito iyong kuryente na nararamdaman mo kapag kasama mo ang isang tao. Iyong nanlalambot ang tuhod mo. Iyong parang nauutal ka at ayaw gumana ng motor skills mo. Iyong kahit na anong gawin at sabihin niya, o kahit wala siyang ginagawa o sinasabi, kinikilig ka na. Kung hindi mo naman siya kasama, nangingiti ka kapag naiisip mo siya.

Ang tawag dun… spark. Magic. Kilig. Kuryente.

At iyon din ang hinahanap ko ngayon.

May isang lalaking may gusto sa akin. Mabait siya. May hitsura. Matino. Stable. Mature. May napatunayan na sa buhay. Maalalahanin. May konting sense of humor. At alam ko, aalagaan niya ako.

Siya iyong lalaking iuuwi mo sa nanay mo at alam mong magiging mabuting asawa at tatay ng mga anak mo.

Pero wala akong maramdamang “kilig.” Walang magic.

Lagi kong sinasabi, “He’s a ‘good on paper’ guy, pero walang spark. Kahit kiskisan ko man ng bato… wala talaga!”

Sabi ng mga kaibigan ko, hindi na daw importante ang spark. Hindi daw ito tiket para sa isang masaya at tumatagal na relasyon. Maraming factors ang dapat i-consider, hindi lang spark…

Aanhin mo ang spark kung lagi naman kayong nag-aaway? Aanhin mo ang spark kung hindi naman kayo nagkakasundo sa mga bagay-bagay? Kung hindi naman siya puwedeng mag-commit? Kung alam mo naman na masama siya para sa iyo?

Noong huling usap namin ni Lhen, sabi niya, baka daw bigyan na niya ng chance iyong manliligaw niya, kahit wala siyang maramdamang spark.

Pati tuloy ako, napapaisip na rin… Itutuloy ko ba kahit na walang spark? Magiging masaya kaya kami, kahit na hindi ako kinikilig sa kanya? Importante ba talaga ang “magic” sa isang relasyon?

“Baka naman nasa atin lang ang problema,” dagdag ni Lhen.

Mali nga ba ako kung maghanap man ako ng spark sa isang relasyon? Pang teenager na nga lang ba iyong “nanlalambot ang tuhod” chuva at kapag nasa 20s ka na ay nakakasuka na ang humangad ng kilig?

Siguro nga masyado na akong matanda para maghanap ng lalaking magbibigay sa akin ng “kilig” dahil hindi naman kami mabubusog doon at hindi rin puwedeng pambayad ng tuition ng magiging anak namin ang spark.

But I am also old enough to know what I want in a guy… and having that “kilig” feeling is one of them. At para sa akin, ang pakikipag-relasyon sa isang taong walang spark, ay maitutumbas na rin sa pagse-settle.

At ayokong mag-settle.

Pero di ako nawawalan ng pag-asa. Malay mo ngayon, walang spark. Pero eventually, sa tamang panahon, baka magka-spark na. Kung paano, hindi ko alam…

Meron kayang binebentang spark sa pinakamalapit na Mercury Drug o Mini-Stop? Saan nga ba nakakabili ng spark?


spark?
by dunkinshiek

Monday, March 28, 2005 @ 02:05:54 PM



nakita ko na yan nun ah (libre) pero nawala din agad eh kasi naman ung kinakitaan ko ng spark eh me inii-sparkan na iba (ngeks…lolz) kya ayun, para syang torch na nahipan ng malakas na hangin.
ang hinahanap ko ngaun eh baterry. kse nde ko marinig ung “music”. sabi kse nila me music daw yun (ano ba talaga?). tried different battery pero all i hear is static eh, ewan ko, cguro out of beam or footprint ung antenna.

good luck na lang sa mga naghahanap ng spark and paki post na lang kung san nakakabili pag me nakita kau..hehehe.


Re: bili na lang tayo…
by nescafe_ice13

Monday, March 28, 2005 @ 02:34:18 PM



ng watusi. me spark din naman yun e.
sorry mej jaded na ko, its just that minsan, i believe the spark would come in later. habang nakikilala mo na yung guy. habang narerealize mo na me similar likes/dislikes kayo, same principles. habang nakikita mo ang kanyang stable qualities. habang unti-unti, you tend to see him in a different light. di naman siguro yun instant spark. mas kilig for me yung unti-unti, makikita mo na yung spark. tapos that spark would turn into something more magical, more passionate, more…ayoko nang ituloy. baka censored e…

again, good work, miss noringai. ang sinulat mo ngayon ay isang bagay na ayokong harapin, pero you helped me face it. at chaka pag nakita mo ulit si direk ha? :)



Re:
by anGelTears

Wednesday, March 23, 2005 @ 03:13:35 AM



You wouldn’t be settling, you’re simply opening your mind and heart to the possibility that the spark simply took its sweet time to be felt.

That was the same situation I was in. Singlehood was my fate for nearly half a decade, and among the reasons for choosing that was the lack of that spark. When I thought I found a guy who managed to raise my pulse rate a bit. . . he fades into nothingness. Sobrang spark, biglang nagliyab at nawala sa kawalan hehe.

Around the same time there was this guy who was all sweet, thoughtful, gentlemanly and very patient. I must’ve been too blinded by what I thought was spark from the other camp, I originally wrote off Mr.Nice as. . . well, Mr.Nice. Thankfully I did not close my doors to him and throughout the many experiences we’ve shared, I got to know him more and realized. . . we’ve got not just sparks flying - there was a whole fireworks display :D Guess who I decided to end my half a decade singlehood streak with? (”,)


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mr Nice by noringai on Friday, March 25, 2005 @ 11:48:26 AM
spark vs chemistry
by hydro

Wednesday, March 23, 2005 @ 10:37:12 AM



having/finding spark in a potential partner is indeed welcome. though not a prerequisite for me.
i put more weight on chemistry. it bodes of a better guarantee that you and the other click. the thing with chemistry though is that it takes longer to deliver the verdict on whether you have it or not. kaya naman i usually adopt a more laid-back attitude when deciding. and in the process usually manage to enjoy the ride/moment so far.

kung spark lang ang make or break criteria. masyadong fleeting minsan. kaya you run the danger of deciding prematurely.

hemingways, dunno if that made sense or not. nice read none the less. and glad to see you writing here again.

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Things learned from intergender friendships

Things learned from intergender friendships
By Mariel G. Calalo
YOU contributor


THE PREMISE of this article lies on the principle that sometimes,
loving a person doesn’t mean it has to be romantic and loving a person for the
rest of your life doesn’t mean you have to end up marrying them. Can a man
and a woman just be friends? I’d say yes and they should be.

Hindi dahil kinaibigan ka, liligawan ka na. Not every guy who befriends
you has an ulterior motive. Get over yourself. Don’t flatter yourself.
There is a reason why he befriended you, but don’t automatically assume that
it’s because he wants to be your so-called boyfriend. If this will be the
principle you’ll follow every time someone asks you to be his friend,
you’re gonna miss a great deal from the friendship.

Hindi dahil mabait sa iyo, nililigawan ka na. There are people who are
naturally sweet and kind. There are people who are innately good and no
matter how wicked you seem, they just find it so easy to be kind to
you. It doesn’t mean he is courting you. Don’t put yourself through unnecessary
stress trying to figure out if he’s courting you or not. Because I
think if he is, you won’t have to guess, you’ll know and you’ll be very certain
about it.

Hindi dahil he talks to you a lot, he loves you na. You don’t befriend
a person if you absolutely abhor him, right? Chances are you make sense
when he talks to you, or you’re probably very patient listening to him. The
two of you probably connect on some level but why does it always have to be
assumed to be romantic? Being two intelligent, mature human beings, you
need to accept that it’s nice to share a cup of coffee over a stimulating
conversation, and that you don’t have to automatically put romantic
connotation to it. Relieve yourself of the pressure. It’s just coffee
and a shared interest.

Hindi dahil cute ang friend mo, crush/love mo na siya. This is the most
amusing thing that hit me lately. People always assume that because
your friend is cute or should I say, hot (because cute is a word you
describe your high school crush while hot is a word you use to describe a hunk),
“lakas amats mo na for repapips!” Let me just say this, at least from
my own personal experience, I’m just nearsighted, I haven’t gone blind. I can
still appreciate God’s creation! However, there will always be weird things,
crazy things, stupid things that will keep you, believe me, from having a
crush on him. First of all, you’d know his history with women, enough to judge
what’s good for you. Second, don’t you just hate it when a guy who’s
absolutely always put together, who looks intelligent enough pronounces the word
country as “kawntri” and the word mango as “meynggo.” Call me crazy for
judging a person just because he can’t pronounce these words right. I
admit,I’m crazy.

Hindi dahil you hang out with each other most of the time, you’d end up
being boyfriend-girlfriend.
Self-explanatory… There are a thousand,
no million different reasons why things don’t always turn out that way.
There is no one proven formula. For all we know, the reason why he likes
hanging out with you is because he likes getting kikay tips from you. He
probably plans on being kikay himself and he needs a mentor.

A dinner with a guy friend does not necessarily mean equate to a date.
Especially if you’re paying for your share no. Hello? Three things to
consider: the place, the topic and how the two of you actually planned
to meet. First, how it was planned. If it were a date expect that he would
ask you out at least three days before the actual date to give you some
lead time, to give you the notion that you are not just a filler on his
schedule. Second, the place. If it were a real date, the both of you would want
real food and a place where you could really talk things through. Don’t go
out with a guy to a movie on Friday night if you’re really serious about
him. Going to a movie is more like treating him like a “filler” just because
you had nothing to do on a Friday night so you might as well go out. Topic.
Ha! You wouldn’t be talking about chikang artista, chikang opisina or argue
if the one girl’s boobs are real or not. You would be probably talking
about sensible, quite personal stuff.

I therefore conclude that platonic relationships are never complicated;
people just have tendencies to complicate them!

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HOW TO CONTROL EMOTIONS

Paano nga bang magre-react sa mga taong grrr…

This  would  give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your better-half,   friends,  officemates  and  all  the  people  around  you,  especially  your “boss“. The rules of practicing  “ugaling langit, ugaling  kaaya-aya” :

#1  Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng  galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.

 #2  Walang  taong  nag-aaway  mag-isa.  Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol,  titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo.

 #3 Ang taong galit, ‘bingi.’ If someone is angry, wala raw pinakikinggan,  so,  don’t try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil  wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.

 #4  Ang  taong  galit, ‘abnoy.’ Ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? because  the  Lord  said  when  He was crucified, “Father, patawarin mo sila dahil  hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa.”  Modern  term  for these kinds of people are abnoys, so you better not get  angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy. You  should  also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad  are jewel, because you need them for you to mature.  Hangga’t andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa.  God  will  not take away those people; it’s for you to take away your bad  feelings towards them.  You’ll  know  na  mature  ka  na  pag  dumating ‘yung time na hindi ka na  naiinis  sa  mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to  have patience with them.

#5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na, because of this

person,  “I  will  grow  mature,”  and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA

MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD!

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W.O.M.A.N

The Silent Treatment


A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each
other the silent treatment.  Suddenly, the man realized that the next day,
he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight.

Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper,
“Please wake me at
5:00 AM ” He left it where he knew she would find it.
The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM
and he had missed his flight.  Furious, he was about to go and
see why his wife hadn’t wakened him, when he noticed a piece of paper by
the bed. The paper said, “It is 5:00 AM. Wake up.”
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.

 WIFE VS. HUSBAND


A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word.

An earlier discussion had led to an argument and

 neither of them wanted to concede their position.

As they passed a barnyard of mules, goats, and pigs,

the husband asked sarcastically, “Relatives of yours?”

 ”Yep,” the wife replied , “in-laws”

 WOMEN’S REVENGE

 “Cash, check or charge?” I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase.

As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse.
“So, do you always carry your TV remote?” I asked.
“No,” she replied, ” but my husband refused to come shopping with me,

and I figured this was the most evil thing I could do to him legally.”

 

 

UNDERSTANDING WOMEN

(A MAN’S PERSPECTIVE)

I know I’m not going to understand women.

I’ll never understand how you can take boiling hot wax,

pour it onto your upper thigh, rip the hair out by the root,

and still be afraid of a spider.

 

W O R D S

 A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day…

30,000 to a man’s 15,000.

The wife replied, “The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men…

 The husband then turned to his wife and asked, “What?”

CREATION

A man said t o his wife one day, “I don’t know how you can be

so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time.

” The wife responded, “Allow me to explain.

God made me beautiful so you would be attracted to me;

God made me stupid so I would be attracted to you!

 

WHO DOES WHAT

A man and his wife were having an argument about who

should brew the coffee each morning.

The wife said, “You should do it, because you get up first,

and then we don’t have to wait as long to get our coffee.”

 The husband said, ” You are in charge of cooking around here and

you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee.”

Wife replies, “No, you should do it, and besides, it is in the Bible

that the man should do the coffee.”

Husband replies, “I can’t believe that, show me.”

So she fetched the Bible, and opened the New Testament

and showed him at the top of several pages, that it indeed says……….”HEBREWS”

 

 God may have created man before woman,

but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece.

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Inday, La SeÑorita

Naaaliw talaga ako kay Inday lately. I wanna thank Neph for sending me SMS updates about Inday’s megascapades. I compiled them for everyone’s enjoyment.

Advance Payment
“Norture others with positive, truthful words, not words that hurt. It doesn’t cost anything to do so.
But mean what you say, and say what you mean. Do it everyday.
This is one of the most obvious qualities of the most beloved people.
If you cannot be generous financially, at least be generous with words.”
- sagot ni Inday sa amo niya matapos hindi pautangin at pagmumurahin pa.
Fishes (?)
Amo : Inday, bumili ka nga ng mga isda.Uo nga pala, Inglesera ka na ngayon. Would you please purchase many fishes for our food this week?
Inday : Judging from your statement, I believe you meant a variety of fish. The term “fishes”, although rarely used, connotes a plethora or an array of different kind of afformentioned gilled creatures. But the more pressing question before I traverse the road to the market would be : What certain type of fish? Fillet or not? Frozen or just right smack the day’s catch?
(pauses)
Aaahhh….by manner of careful extrapolation, given the meager budget of this household’s quasi-peasant middle class taste, I assume then that I will source the staple ga-lewng-gowng, am I correct?
Amo : Leche!
Inday : You meant the freshwater milkfish? Then, ba-ngooz, is it?
(Hanep, hindi lang nosebleed, internal hemorrage pa!)
Blogster
“Love - a wildly misunderstood
although highly desirable malfunction of the heart that weakens the brain,
 causes the eyes to sparkle,
cheeks to glow,
blood pressure to rise
and lips to pucker.”
- Inday habang gumagawa ng blog sa friendster.

Mega Sosyal Day-off
“I have been to the Fort. Visited a friend of mine in her condo at Serendra. Anyway, I bought some desserts from Xocolat for all of you. “
(Explain ni Inday kung saan siya nag-day off while wearing her new dress from Zara.)

Steamy Love Session over the Phone
“I was just reminiscing  about last night; it was so perfect.
The subtle breeze made me shiver from time to time.
You’re so passionate and intense. When you start to speak , I am  simply bawled over by your eloquence.
I am so glad we were able to talk outside.”
(Inday habang kausap si Dudong sa phone.)

The Story of Success and Oven
“Success is often the result of taking a misstep in the right direction.
Show me a person who has never made a mistake and I’ll show you somebody who has never achieved much.”
(Sagot ni Inday nung sumabog ang microwave oven na gamit niya.)

Angel Locsin
“Sometimes people choose to leave not because of selfish reasons, but because they just know that things will get worse if they will stay.
Leaving can be a tough act and it’s harder when people can hardly understand you for doing so.”
- comment ni Inday sa pag-alis ni Angel Locsin sa GMA-7.

Inday’s Fave Song

Many are saying that the song “The Greatest Love Of All” is wrong because of the line “learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all” and that is being selfish, but on the contrary, how can you give love if you don’t have love in you? Can you give what you don’t have? So, for  short, we have to be equipped to give and it all begins in us. Love and helping.     

-galing kay Inday. Nakainom ng 2 boteng Generoso kagabi. Fave song niya yun, hanggang ngayon wala pa rin sa katinuan.

Gimik

Hey, are you doing anything tonight? Can you join me for a few drinks? Don’t worry, my treat…Sky is the limit…Just want somebody to talk to. He left me na kc for that bitch. We can meet up at Capones and then afterwards we’d go to Embassy.

- Inday, sawi sa pag-ibig. INiwan kasi ni Dodong

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Para sa Lahat ng Kaugali ni Rakhbu!

An Ode to Rakhbu:

Mukha ka namang masaya, in all honesty, noong una tayong magkita, nainggit nga ako sa’yo kasi ang saya saya mo. Everytime na mapapatingin ako sa’yo, nakikita ko ang ngala-ngala mo sa sobra mong kagalakan - humahalakhak ka na parang wala ng bukas. Hindi ni minsan kitang nakitang sumimangot. Naintriga tuloy ako sa’yo, ninais na mapasok ang mundo mo para lamang ma-surprise sa nakasusulasok at tila bangungot mong mundo. Mabaho. Pangit. Negatibo. Bulok. Kaya nga para sa’kin ang code name mo ay RHAKBU, as in reverse ng BURAK — kulay pusali, amoy pusali.

Natutuwa kang pag-usapan ang ibang tao. May sense of joy kang nararamdaman kapag may napagtawanan kang ibang tao — sa suot, so pisikal na anyo, sa paraan ng pagkilos at pagsasalita. Para sa ‘yo, walang pupuwedeng maging mas maganda pa sa iyo. Itinaas mo ang sarili mo sa pedestal, idinambanda ang sariling tila isang Diyosa. Para sa ‘yo, hindi maaaring lumipas ang isang araw ng wala kang nalalait, halos ikamatay mo ang walang mapagtawanan. Kailangan mong manglait at manghamak ng ibang tao. Iba ka, eh, di ba nga isa kang Diyosa?!

Natatandaan ko ‘nung minsan, nagkakasiyahan ka kasama ng mga alagad ng dilim, este, mga kaibigan mo pala, at ‘nong malaman ko kung bakit, naawa ako hindi sa taong pinag-uusapan ninyo, higit lalo sa mga kaluluwa ninyong sobrang inaamag at inuuod na sa kabulukan. Paano ninyo nga bang nagagawang pagtawanan ang kamalian, kakulangan at ang hindi pagiging karaniwan ng iba? At bakit ba kailangang paulit-ulit ninyong hanapan ng dahilan ang mga sarili ninyo upang tuluyang magalit o mainis sa ibang tao? At kapag nakahanap kayo ng rason para mapagtawanan ang mga inosenteng taong itinuturing ninyong kaaway ay nalulubos ang kaligayahan ninyo? Naisip ko pa na siguro, lalagnatin ka kapag naging mabait ka kahit ilang sandali lang.

Naisip ko tuloy minsan, ganiyan din ba ang nanay mo? ang tatay mo? Iyan ba ang gintong aral na ipinamana nila sa iyo? At gusto mong ipamana sa mga magiging anak mo? Ganyang uri siguro ng environment ang kinalakhan mo? No wonder! Hindi talaga kataka-takang maging maaskad din ang ugali mo! Masamang ugat naman pala ang pinagmulan mo, e! Hindi nga naman magbubunga ng sariwa ang bulok!

Minsan naiisip ko, mabuti may kaibigan ka pa, na kayang mag-tiyaga sa ugali mo. Pero naisip ko din, base sa mga nasaksihan ko, “BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHERS, FLOCK TOGETHER”. Kasi pare-parehong nagra-radiate ang negative energy at nakararamdam ang mundo ng karimlan kapag nagti-tipon tipon kayo ng mga alagad mo. At buti rin nakakatulog ka pa sa gabi (or sa umaga ‘pag night shift ka!)? Hindi ka ba binabangungot? At malamang sa hindi, hindi mo rin alam ang salitang karma, well, panonoorin ko na lang ang balik ng karma sa’yo para naman matauhan ka. At kapag dumating ang araw na ‘yon, nasa akin pa rin ang huling halakhak.

Ipinagpapasalamat ko na rin na hindi ako naging bahagi ng mundo mo. Okay na ding hindi matawag na “cool” dahil hindi tayo “close” or ituring na “outcast” dahil hindi tayo “friends”. Dahil, hindi man ako lubusang mabait, hindi ko naman kakayaning makisawsaw sa kaligayan mo, na kasing babaw ng pagkatao mo!

Sana matauhan ka bago pa mahuli ang lahat at kung sakaling kailangan mo ng tulong, lalo na ng kaibigang maaasahan at totoo, puwede mo naman akong lapitan. Ilang hakbang at ilang cubicles lang naman ang layo ko sa’yo.

Kahit gaano ka kasama, may nagmamahal pa rin sayo.

Si Lord (’kala mo ako noh! Nananaginip ka ata!).

Ipagdarasal ko ang agaran mong paggaling.
Umaasang magbabago ka,
A.K.O *

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*Footnote : About the Author.

Si Janis de Asis po ay isang karaniwang mamamayan na may hindi pangkaraniwang pag-iisip. (Wait, ano ako, BALIW???) Ang nabasa ninyong liham ay hango sa totoong buhay, isang liham na nais ipaabot ng isa sa mga malalapit niyang kaibigan laban sa kaniyang mga detractors, kailangan ng nasabing kaibigan ang “reinforcement”.
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